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I'm gonna have to agree with Kaetchen. If he's going to have a tiff about your hair, what's he going to be like when you start to get older or if you ever put on weight or anything about you changed?

Kick him to the curb.

hi, just wanted to add my .02 to this. I once made a similar mistake of telling my ex that she looked like a little boy after she cut her hair up to her ears... Needless to say, no nookie for months and it cost me a bundle in roses and chocolate. Cut the hair and black mail his ass, it worked for my ex!

On a side note, I was just in Stockholm and found it to be a gorgeous city. Very clean and every person I met was extremely nice. So, a collective "Thank you" from Dave in San Diego

Oh, for fuck's sake. If his feelings about you would alter because of hair length, it's time to dump and run. Screw it.

(Sorry, H, but honestly! He cares that much about HAIR?)

Perhaps I shall receive the ubiquitous snarls from others...but it seems people are obsessed with your looks. "You are smokin"", etc....

That is treating someone as an object and I refuse to do that. You seem like a pleasant person, long hair, short hair, no hair. Perhaps because I get laid a lot, I am not in the habit of wooing online. I like your blog because you write honestly, a too rare commodity. I wish you well and think that despite your looks, or what others think of them, you are simply an extraordinary person.

Your husband is an ass.

Cheers,

Jay

I once had a guy friend tell me my face was too fat for short hair. At the time, my hair was mid-back long. I bobbed it up to my ears, and the next time I saw him he didn't even notice I'd cut it. And also, the last time I wanted to cut my hair, Current Man said he liked it long. I had short hair when we met, told him so, and he just kind of gave me a pleading look. I cut it, and while he wasn't thrilled at first, it grew on him and after a few days when anyone would comment on my hair, he'd say "I know! Doesn't she look great!" Screw Partner Unit. Do it. And that cut would look great on you! Have fun in Dallas.

Read Jay's comment (it's the first one). I agree wholeheartedly. What an insensitive schmuck. Helen, in case you don't know, because you've not been exposed to it before, a good husband would not say something like that.

And I'm changing my mind, cut the damn hair if you want. Normally I'd be against it, because making major changes when you're in transition is a bad idea, generally. But it'll grow back. If it's what you need to do (I'm being consistent with what I said back in November, I guess), do it.

What happened with the job? Did they extend the interview, or are you doing a phone thing?

And, by the way, welcome back to the U.S. of A. We missed you.

Its one thing to say you prefer someone's hair a certain style, its entirely different to say a certain hair style will make them "ugly". It would almost be funny if it wasn't so lame.

You have commented before on how good a guy PU is, from what I have read, I think in most cases you are probably not far off. You have also mentioned how he seems to only be able to deal with "surface Helen", The comments he made prove it =/

This is further confirmed by his "apology". I doubt what he said hurt nearly as much as his inability to put aside his petty whims and help you decide what is right for you. His opportunity to express his opinion and try to sway you to his preference ended about 2 seconds after he answered you the first time it was brought up. After that he is just being selfish and controlling.

If he thinks its your hair that makes you beautiful, the boy is missing the best part!

Dane

What a stuffy-assed cocksucker. I say cut it, even if it's out of spite. Spite is an awesome thing!! LOL
Actually, I'm usually more attracted to women with shorter hair. For him to say what he did was fucking classless and I wanna smash him in the nuts.
Glad to hear you made it here safely (and in style, apparently) and hope your time here gets better. Can't wait to see what's next.

I like the long hair, but I keep mine about ass length, so its just me. That cut is cute too, so go for it. If my man said that to me, I'd cut HIS hair. Dick! : O)

Fuck 'em...and not in a good way.

That's the spirit! My husband says similar things about my having brown hair. It was dyed blonde for a while, red for a very short while, purple for slightly longer than the red etc..but I keep coming back to my (almost) natural brown, which he hates. Whenever he tells me he likes it better blonde I just say "it's a good thing it's not your hair then" and soon after that it'll be darker brown :)

Well.. if you have to cut it.. Locks of Love is the way to go... I REALLY REALLY hate getting my hair cut.. so every few years (ie when my boss starts commenting :) I donate if I can manage to get it long enough..

Once upon a time, not so long ago, my boyfriend told me if i cut my hair he would break up with me.

I cut my hair.

I broke up with him.

And i lived happily ever after.

Not the hair! Please, I'll do anything.

Jim, you have five minutes in which to quit being a fucking pig before I drive to Georgia and beat your ass.

Honestly, after what he said to her?--She should shave it.

I typed and re-typed this comment numeorous times. Each time I began with a put down of Swedes but on second thought I know alot of Swedes and they are nice, caring guys who treat their wives and girlfriends with great respect and love. You are with an asshole. I do know a few arrogant, asshole Swedes though.

Welcome to Dallas!

That was pretty rude...he should love you for you, and not give a damn about what length your hair is...he sounds like someone I'd like have a chat with..

I dont either. They are striking to get health benefits that other employees get within the organization. Resturant says they cant afford it. I guess it will all depend on whether people will stop eating there or not. So far I dont think buisness is down.

The MTA one was a bit more amusing with the Loudspeakers and such. They were protesting job cuts which always brings out a crowd. To think when you saw the strike you were 5 min away from where I worked. Sigh :)

I'm with you. I originally said to keep your long hair, but now I say cut it. Screw him. That was so rude!

And I saw the picture of you with short hair. You looked great! I had said to keep the long hair because I've been growing mine from a short cut. It's a pain, but so what. Hair grows.

But just make sure you do it because you want to, not just to spite him.

Have fun in Dallas!

Yeah, it's a strange thing-this morning once he woke up and turned to me and apologized for saying that, almost like he had read my blog (he hadn't). But he still maintained that I am prettier with long hair.

Drew, I did see the strike! I thought they looked quite well organized, but something makes me think that they are not going to succeed against such a monsterously big restaurant!

Why that obtuse little fuck! Drive that bonehead to the airport right now! In the list of things that makes you an amazing person I don't see your hair being anywhere near the top 10.

Good luck with the back problems. How about inversion boots?!

Take care, PC

fuck that shit!

yeah, i'd get all rebellious on the comment as well. and anyone who tells you you're ugly with a hair change needs to get clocked. if you drive up to boston i can have that arranged. ;-)

Whoa. Dickhole alert.

I had a boyfriend who was dead set against me cutting my hair. I knew the relationship was floundering (this is the guy who was beaten with a prosthetic leg, mind you) and the fact that he was so adament about me not cutting my hair only made me want to do it. So I did. And broke up with him the next day. It was like cutting my hair and being okay afterwards was enough to let me know I'd also be okay if I left him.

And I think that cut is fucking deelovely!! Oh la la la la la la la la.

my ex-husband told me that i would look stupid with short hair.
kept the hair (for a while) and got rid of him.

I'd have to leave the sumbitch for that. That's emotional battery in my book. Seriously. And, I'm so freaking rebellious I'd probably shave my head just for effect. Done it before. Ha!
Of course, it IS winter. Hmmm...

I think that haircut would look great on you.
Whatever you do, though, have a great holiday - and take care of your back! :)

Quick note :)

I drink the Caramel Macchiato iced so you def have good taste :). Though it has a shit load of carbs I cant seem to break it (along with caffine and Catchup).

Grand Central is Amazing. Did you see the strikers by the Oyster Bar while you were there? Also MTA had a loud protest on Thursday so Im not sure if you saw it or not but it was amuzing.

Cutting your hair sounds fine. But dont do it just to piss someone off. Do it cause you want to. Cutting off your nose to spite your face comes to mind.

Be good..Drew

NOOOOOO!!!

Not the hair! Please, I'll do anything. Will bribery work? I'll start the "Save Helen's Hair" foundation. I'll give you my firstborn child (it's okay, I've got two spares).

It's not a question of hotness - you'd still be smokin' if you were bald. It's just that true sultriness has a minimum hair length requirement and that length is well past the shoulders. (Optimal length is lower back, right around the butt dimple level.)

Geeze, I can't believe he said you were ugly! Oh..my..God!!!! What an asshat!It I were you, I'd cut my hair, too - oh, but wait, my hair is already short. WHat a jerk! That one comment is unforgiveable!

Other than that, hope you have a good time. Maybe you can conquer your ghosts while there.

Oh, and I also have a sister like that. Good luck!

Partner Unit sounds like an asshole. Sorry if that means I can no longer comment or visit...but.